The Afterlife Can Do Good For Those

We Leave Behind

An amazing thing happened recently following the launch of Evan's Destination Day Camp in August.

A customer and friend of Abby's Gold and Gems in Uniontown came to me and made an amazing pledge.

This customer stated that while thinking about her affairs, as she approached retirement age, she decided that she wanted to help out with a donation of her fine jewelry to the effort  to provide educational and recreational opportunities to the kids served by the Highlands Hospital Regional Center for Autism.

She intends on putting her wishes in her last Will and Testament.

To me, this gift of the heart is an amazing testament to the inherent goodness in people. It testifies to the human desire to help others, to leave the world a better place by your actions and it can give us all another reason to realize that we can enjoy the material things in life but that it's really people that are most important.

- John Carom

The origin of Evan’s Destination Day Camp Program

All people are complex and multifaceted. Evan Carom was no different. He was quiet, kind and hopeful for his future. He loved his family and was loved in return by family and friends.

He was only 27 years when he died unexpectedly at home. Most people who knew him didn’t know that one passion of his life was working with kids who lived with some degree of autism spectrum disorder.

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Evan was introduced to Autistic kids through his cousins who worked in the summer at camp S.P.E.A.K. in Pittsburgh. He started out as a volunteer, completing his senior project while still at Laurel Highlands High School and continued to work the next 10 summers as a paid teacher assistant. Evan especially liked and excelled at helping to teach kids about how to navigate the world, on field trips, to Mcdonald’s even to a public restroom.

Few people in his life know of this passion. When he died that passion to help died with him. 

But his parents realized that he wouldn’t have wanted the helping to end. And so they contacted Highland Hospital’s Regional Center for Autism to find out how they could help continuing with Evan’s passion. They know that if asked, Evan would have said, “yes, help them”.

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Evan’s life, terribly, did not have enough time to live fully. He never had the chance to marry and to have children. He will have missed many of the joys and triumphs most of us experience in a long life, among the troubles and disappointments that accompany all the good things.

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But because of his joy in working with kids, he has inspired some of us to look beyond ourselves and to offer up our time, our money and our compassion for children who live with some pretty difficult challenges.

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Maybe then, with whatever good Evan’s Destination Day can do for many kids over the years, we who support the program can make our own lives a little fuller.

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